Trauma & attachment
Many of the people I work with have spent years managing the effects of trauma and early attachment wounds without quite knowing that’s what they’re doing. Our earliest relationships — the ones that taught us whether we were safe, loved, and worthy — shape everything that follows. When those foundations were uncertain or painful, the effects travel with us: into how we see ourselves, how we connect with others, and how regulated or unsteady we feel inside.
Trauma and attachment wounds can show up in many forms — as PTSD, anxiety, or depression that won’t lift. As grief or loss that feels impossible to move through. As dissociation, a sense of not quite being present in your own life, or a persistent feeling of disconnection from yourself and others. For many people, especially women in midlife, neurodivergence is also part of this picture — often unrecognized for years, and deeply intertwined with how trauma has been carried.
These are not signs of weakness. They are often the nervous system’s way of adapting to experiences that once felt unsafe or overwhelming. Together, we explore these patterns gently — creating the conditions for something to soften, for what has been fragmented to begin to integrate.